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Valentine’s Day in America often involves buying gifts for significant others, such as flowers, teddy bears or chocolate. Johnny’s Flowers in the University District offers all these items and more around the holiday.
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Love it or hate it, Valentine's Day is right around the corner.
It's the day that celebrates all forms of cheesiness, sappiness and
mushiness, causes Hallmark card sales to skyrocket and makes hearts
flutter in secret expectation. American shop windows are decked out
in white, red and pink. Roses are gifted with anticipation and
heart-strewn cards are diligently written for loved-ones and
sweethearts. But is there a more serious side to the sentimental
service of Feb. 14?
Valentine's Day commemorates the life of St. Valentine, a Roman
Catholic priest who dedicated his life to keeping love alive,
according to
http://pictureframes.co.uk/pages/saint_valentine.htm.
The facts of the legend are blurred, but as the story goes, in
the third century, Emperor Claudius II, aware that married men
didn't want to leave their wives and families to go to war, banned
marriage completely. St. Valentine, a believer in love, aided young
couples and married them in secret.
After being found out, Valentine was put in jail where he
continued his work, and in the process befriended (or fell in love
with) the jailer's daughter.
On the day of his execution, Feb. 14, 269, he wrote her a
letter, signing it "from your Valentine"--and the line lived
on.
"From your Valentine" has wrapped up many a card over the
centuries and other such traditions have sprung up to make
Valentine's Day what it is now.
Love is universal and is celebrated all over the world in
different ways. In America, and many other western countries, the
holiday is celebrated by everything from giving a love interest
flowers to taking a sweetheart out to a multi-course dinner.
Chocolate and other candies have become a huge part of showing love
and sending out cards has become an annual ritual.
In Austria and Germany, men go out to buy flowers and gifts for
their wives, but in Spain it is the wives who buy gifts for their
husbands, according to
http://internet-at-work.com/hos_mcgrane/holidays/2_melissa.html.
In Wales, according to the Web site, it is customary to make
gifts of carved wooden spoons decorated with hearts, locks and keys
that symbolize the message "you unlock my heart."
Try this tradition out if you want to surprise your beloved with
something slightly out of the ordinary.
Chile turns Valentine's Day into a massive gala, according to
http://dgreetings.com, complete with window decorations, a famous
smooching competition and big family meals, with desserts such as
"mote con huesillo" (a drink made of wheat husk and sun-dried
peaches).
However, not all celebrations of romance fall on Feb. 14. "Dia
dos Namorados" (or "Day of the enamored") falls on June 12 in
Brazil, according to http://web.ku.edu/~brasilis/bhist.html. The
traditions, however, remain the same as lovers exchange gifts,
chocolate and flowers.
In Romania, the first of March is the day a young woman waits in
anticipation as the man traditionally "ties a little bracelet with
red and white string, sometimes with a charm at the end" on the
woman's wrist to show that she is his, said freshman Tasha Muresan,
from Romania.
In Japan and Korea, until very recently, women never received
anything on Valentine's Day. Freshman Christina Renick, who grew up
in Japan, said it is a day in which girls present store-bought
chocolates to men, including bosses, friends and others. These
chocolates are termed "giri-choco," which means "obligation
chocolate."
For that one special person, however, homemade chocolates called
"honmei" (which can be translated as "the true one") are
presented.
Though this may not seem very fair to the women, there is a
point on the calendar when they are on the receiving end. That day
is March 14, also known as "White Day," where men who received
things on Valentine's Day give gifts back to the women.
Additionally, due to the American influence, Japanese and Korean
women are starting to demand things on Valentine's Day from their
special men, though this is still a new idea to these
countries.
For all the single men out there, "Black Day" is celebrated on
April 14 in South Korea, and slowly spreading in Japan, Renick
said. It's a day when those who received or gave nothing go out and
eat noodles with black bean sauce to celebrate their singleness,
though this day is not taken as seriously.
Another interesting romantic tradition occurs in Taiwan. The
number of roses given to a special someone can mean different
things. For example, 99 roses are given to mean "forever" because
99 is pronounced "jyou jyou," which sounds like "long long,"
according to Dwight Johnson, a missionary in Taiwan and the father
of sophomore Daniel Johnson.
Coincidentally, alcohol is also pronounced "jyou" and therefore
given most often in weddings to signify a long relationship.
Romance is a worldwide tradition, so as you plan out how you
are going to celebrate this coming Valentine's Day, "Valentinsdag"
(Denmark and Finland), "Alla hjartans dag" ("All Hearts Day,"
Sweden) or "Sevgililer Gunu" (Turkey), keep in mind that the world
is celebrating with you in many diverse ways to honor and
commemorate the one thing we all have in common: the ability to
love.
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